Be you and be ok with it

Hi, I've got a little something on my heart today, because I keep on hearing it: People keep telling me that I am not a "real" bisexual because I never had a girlfriend or even kissed a woman or a girl. That's like saying nobody has any kind of sexuality or sexual orientation until they've been dating/kissing/having sex. It's simply not true. I am romantically and sexually attracted to both men and woman, so I am bisexual. No matter wether I actually had any kind of romantic or sexual relationship with both of those genders. I know who and what I am, so stop trying to tell me I am not, you are not in my head or heart, you don't know the way I feel, so don't assume you know better than me who I really am. I don't need your opinion to validate my sexuality. And to everyone who might feel the same way I do right now or at any time: Don't let others tell you who you are and what your preferences are. The only person who actually knows them...

Good evening. While growing up and even now people keep telling me not to wear make up, because if I were a true feminist or would actually like myself the way I am I wouldn't need it. The thing is: I do not need it. I can go without make up. But I like wearing it. It is a part of me to like this, to like making my skin look different or to make my eyelashes look longer. I can transform into the person I want to be at that moment by wearing make up, so what's wrong with it? If I don't want to be that person anymore, I'll just take it off. I am who I am with or without make up, I can like myself with and without it and I am not "fake", because I wear it. I'm just showing a different side of me. It is okay to like Make Up and to like wearing it, please do not let anyone tell you otherwise. It's all about how you feel with it and not about what others think of it or you. You are beautiful the way you are, and if you are a make up wearer that doesn...

Hi, my name it Katrin, but I'll probably refer to myself as Kat or Katy in this Blog. I'm an ordinary woman from Germany, who is trying to accept herself as the person she is and to realize that I am special in my own way. One big issue with that is, that I usually see what's special about other people, but I don't see what others might find interesting or special about me. I say I'm ordinary, because just like you I am only human, I have my faults and my strenghts, I will fail and I will get up again, just like pretty much everyone else does. Of course I am not the same as you are in every kind of way, but you might find some things you agree with on this blog while you don't agree with others. About me: I am a cisgender, bisexual woman who is still learning to refer to herself as a woman and not a girl anymore. Also I am learning to love and accept myself for who I am. I like good food, but also sports, I dance since I'm 18 years old, I've bee...